Tuesday, January 17, 2012

No presents exchanged? No Christmas Colors displayed? No Santa? Ba-humbug I say



Lately I feel like every time I watch the news or go online I hear a story or article on schools banning celebrating holidays in school such as Halloween, Columbus Day, Thanksgiving and Christmas. And with each story, the underlying defense of these bans is that tolerance & inclusion is trying to be promoted.

Each time I hear these stories it really infuriates me and I want to shake these people and say to them:

"What kind of kids do we want to foster & educate? What kind of people do we want them to become? We need to think of who is going to be responsible for our welfare and who will be running this country and making decisions someday. The way we shape their education and educational environment and the activities associated with that, will have a big impact on the adults they become.

Banning some of these holiday celebrations I feel like doesn’t promote tolerance or inclusion, is just our society’s obsession lately of being overly politically correct onto our kids and I think in the long run make them afraid to voice their opinions and beliefs and start to miss the joy and fun in a lot of these holidays by being forced to focus on the negative. Instead of banning all these activities, and ruining it for everyone, let's teach our kids the background of these holidays, the good & the bad and teach them the lessons we’ve learned since those times, but not miss the positives that can still be derived from them, like being thankful, the selfless concept of sacrifice or the amazing adventures and hardships that explorers endured to discover America, and plain and simple just having fun and being carefree. Let’s teach them that you can stand up for what you believe in and where you come from and where our country started from but still be tolerant at the same time. Let’s teach them to appreciate and embrace the foundation that this country was built while still trying to teach about new cultures, different religions and continuing to promote tolerance. I don’t think we need to ban everything in order to protect our kids, we just have to be willing to show them the difference and teach them both sides of these topics and not let fear of what we don’t understand or are uncomfortable with limit what our children learn and who they become.”

A fellow student in my writing class said it perfectly:
 "Honestly I believe if it isn't broke then why try and fix it. Our country seemed to be getting by fine with the principals that were in place when I was a kid. There seems to be more and more problems nowadays that everyone is so sensitive to their own beliefs.

I do believe that we should be taught in school about different cultures, but at the same time keep those guidelines in place that make this country great. I actually think that is what the social studies class is all about. The changes that some schools implicate seem like they want to make us less proud of this great country and really get my blood boiling."

Well said John and I hope America hears us! I don't want my son to have to be afraid to bring Christmas cards or presents to his friends at school and god forbid actually get in trouble for it, or not be allowed to wear colors related to Christmas or to not be taught the positive lessons of Thanksgiving because everyone is too fearful of offending someone! If we keep going in this direction as a society our kids will be afraid to do or say anything or stand up for what they believe or where they came from.

Thursday, January 5, 2012

im still hanging on!

Well once again its been way too long but I'm proud to say all that I mentioned trying to take on in my last post from June 2011 I'm still juggling and I'd like to think pretty well! School is going well, have been on the president's list (higher than the deans's list, oh yea!!) every term so far and my family and work life seem to be surviving as well. And surviving might even be downplaying it as we've has some time for productivity and fun in there too. So thus far my attempt at being Super Woman is successful. No one has gone hungry, the house is relatively neat and clean, we still manage to laugh and smile, so all in all I have go say I'm proud. I even get to wear scrubs a few days a week for one of my classes. Ok I know not the most fashionable of work attire but they have a lot of cute options out there these days and as many of you busy mums can relate to and agree with, getting to wear what is essentially like pajamas and be comfortable while working, is awesome!

So a little foreshadowing to my next post...for school I have to present a "Big Idea", something that means something to me, that I feel strongly about, that I'd like to see change. And part of my presentation is supposed to be some form of media, so I'm going to use this blog. My topic while not 100% in line with what I've discussed thus far, is something that I know a lot of us parents have struggled with and become increasingly frustrated about. I hope you will enjoy this post and honor me with your comments.

Oh yea Happy New Years! Cheers mates! :)

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

I will do this I will

well its has been 6 months since my last post so all hope is not lost but i cut it close i know. i've been following some really great mommy blogs: Kelle Hampton's - Enjoying the Small Things (google) and Mammalingo.com (on tumblr.com) and about to embark on some major changes so I was inspired and determined to get this going. i just need to retrain & reset my schedule so its a permanent part of my day. im going back to school this week for a medical assisting program and trying to find a part-time job to fit in with it all. so the new question will be, can mums, fashion, baby that is not really a baby but a crazy cute little boy, school, work and all the many other components that make up our lives mix? i sure hope so and definitely intend to try and make magic happen. because mums are really Super Man with better accessories right? stay tuned. i promise i won't keep you waiting as long this time.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

yes im a procrastinator

so i was updating my blog design and briefly re-reading my previous (very sporadic i know) blog posts and just wanted to point out a probably very obvious characteristic of mine. i'm a procrastinator. but in my defense i have a full-time job, a commute & a almost 1 1/2 year old lil boy! oh and until yesterday, an out of work husband. so im often distracted & busy. but there are many other mums out there i know that juggle even more so whats that you say? oh right get my butt in gear and get a move on before im old & gray. so for 2011 i'm either just going to own this procrastination and have you bet on just how far or not far depending on how you look at it, i get in my proclamations of new goals ive set, or just stop telling anyone any of my pipe dreams and just surprise you when I actually accomplish them. what do you think? im sure my blatant open broadcasting of my procrastination is much more entertaining.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Time for a change & refocus!!

Well never ended up following thru with the whole marathon thing as work & motherhood proved enough for me. I do still have a gym membership. I won't divulge how much use thats getting though. But I'm currently still at my pre-pregnancy weight & even a little less, so I'd say I must have been doing something right all this time. Whether not having enough time to eat at times or money being tight having anything to do with it, will be my secret that I'll take to the grave, LOL.

So for a long time I've been itching to get my creative spirit going and find a way to make money for my family doing something I love & enjoy. While its been good to me for the most part over the years, my degree in Economics & Business isn't exciting me and doesn't fulfill me. For a long time now I've wanted to become an interior decorator as its something I feel and have been told I'm good at but its hard to have the time or figure out the right way to get into it without not working my "real" job. But I'm not getting any younger and Julian is growing up so fast already so I need to get a move on and stop being afraid. I may not have the schooling for this but hey most creative types that end up doing this kind of thing dont either, they just do it! So I'm going to get cards made up, thru my favorite stationary site: http://www.tinyprints.com/; put them up at local shops in my area, post my plans on facebook & twitter, link this blog and hope that some of my friends or friends of friends will help get my feet wet and slowly get some connections going. Maybe it won't take off that fast, but I'll never know 'till I try right?

Wish me luck & any suggestions are appreciated. Stay tuned for some pics of projects around the house that might showcase my talent abit. Keep in mind that money being an issue, I did the best I could with my resources. But the vision was soley mine and with the proper materials/resources & money I could really transform a space!

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Since when do I like to run?

Well I used to literally hate running and now after having a baby something has changed with me, and I suddenly have a strong desire to run. So I am going to register for the Beach to Beacon 10K marathon that takes place in August. So this wkend will mark the start of my "training". We shall see how that goes. Maybe in the spring I can take my little guy out with me in the stroller to make it abit more enjoyable. I will keep you all posted on my progress. I don't have any shame about the possibility that I might be one of those cool people that "walk" it part of the time. The fact that I'm even thinking about attempting this item on newly revised bucket list is a feat in and of itself! LOL

Thursday, January 7, 2010

10 WAYS FOR 2010 TO STAY STYLISH, SANE & SATISFIED (in your home & with yourself)

Since it's 2010 figured it would be fitting to give 10 ideas. So here it goes. What works brillantly for me may not for you but at least you may get a laugh out of some of them or use some & trash the rest. Happy New Years mates!

1) Keep the lights low & of a dim nature so your furniture remains looking pretty & new despite the repeated attempts by your baby & pets to ruin them by spitting up, puking or leaving other bodily fluids to fester. NEVER turn the overhead lights on unless absolutely necessary.

2) One word: TARGET

3) Make time for reading

4) At least once a week, lock the bathroom door and stop feeling guilty about taking the time to fully pamper oneself with pedicure, plucking, etc.; instead of the normal rushed shower.

5) Allow an occasional shopping splurge. Especially if its a classic piece that you can keep in your warddrobe season in & season out, regardless of trends. Or just something that totally makes you happy & feel like you look like a million bucks.

6) Instead of trying to get everything done & put away every night, just let it go sometimes and snuggle a little extra with your baby/kids. That feeling you get from that helps erase the guilt & angst re. undone chores.

7) Watch some trashy reality TV. 9 times out of 10 its bound to make you feel way better about yourself by comparison.

8) Exercise a few times a week. Even if its just a few extra trips up & down the stairs (only takes a few minutes). It's good for you health & self-esteem.

9) Champagne :)

10) Fries w/melted extra sharp cheddar dipped in ranch dressing & some Coke. Ymmmm!